Feeling like brunch, I promise you won’t be disappointed at Stammitsch!
I often wonder how do people find these kind of curious, special places. In my case, one of my friends too me there. It is a little far from where I live, but driving to get there was worth every second.
Here is where you will find it:
小聚, No. 124, Section 2, Shulin St, West Central District, Tainan City, 700
TEL: 06 213 9798
Opens from 9am to 5pm, except on Sunday, cause they close at 3pm.
Be careful with the map, because it marks another place, which is just not Stammisch.
Go though the alleys and on your right side, you will see it.
During weekdays, they will take reservations, but on weekends, you gotta get there and cross your finger hoping that there will be a table for you.
It is a cozy little place where you wish you could stay all afternoon. With home baked bread, real cheese and different especial types of coffee you feel more like in northern Italy than in Tainan.
I delighted myself with bombón coffee, which was bitter and sweet. Bitter because I could taste all the hues of the excellent coffee they have, but with a touch of condensed milk. It was delicious!!! Try it!
They have English menu and English service.
Eating in here made wonder why didn’t know it before. Brunch was exceedingly great.
The SunShower rating is
Please, you have to go there and tell me what you think!!!!
Out of nowhere one of the hosts gets a flute and other other an accordeon. It is hard to top Sweden when they have presented such great musical numbers the last two times they hosted the Eurovision . So, to start the second semifinal with a compilation of some of the past Eurovision hits, but with Ukrainian instruments and dance moves. Beautiful start. These are some of the moments where you can see all the people involved in this event and how much the care about the details. Personally this begging got me thrillied ’cause the play my favortite song and the one that got me involve in this, Fairytale by Alexander Rybak, Norway winner of 2008.
After that amazing start let me five you the highlights
Romania – Pelasurable exccentricity
The name of the song is “Yodel it”, and it is a rap. Guess what? A ras never won. But I guess, that is not the point. This song is a compilation of so many sounds. It’s is one of those things that you can’t either love or hate, it just gets you a smile out. Listen by yourself! If you it got you a smile and rise your eyebrows in amazement, then you are feeling exactly the same as me. But, 12 points for Romania
Opera and pop, this is usually a nice combination, but all sang by the same person….. ehh.. changing back and forth from deep and high pitch voice. I get that he guy has a talent, but people should understand that it is not a talent show and it is show that is solely at trial here.
Sometimes it is the show and sometimes it is the eccentricity that get them tot he final, but in this case, it was a good song. As it should always be, eh!
Here are the other countries
1. Serbia – She has got a hot dancer with her, maybe she will deserve some points because of that.
2. Austria – Awwwww.. Cute. He young red headed Shia Lebouf
3. F.Y.R. Macedonia – Alright, very energetic, but she should learn some better dance moves.
4. Malta – Years back they used to have better song that were nice to listen and catchy… but it appears that last year failure was not a one time thing.
6. The Netherlands – destiny’s child?
7. Hungary – One of those classics that just want to show some folklore. But that is not enough, they gotta mix it with rap. Why?
8. Denmark – ok, nothing special.
9. Ireland – She has a hot air ballo… sorry I mean He has a hot air balloon… but it feels like he is the missing member of a 90′ boy band.
10. San Marino – Finally something nice.
12. Norway- Disco time???
13. Switzerland – Pink and Yellow, pink and yellow… She might get to the final, but not win.
14. Belarus – folklore, folklore, and more folklore in white.
16. Lithuania – I can only see more 90’s style. Am I watching the right show?
17. Estonia – Love her voice, hate his. Please, go get lost in Verona.
18. Israel – I still wonder why you guys are in the Eurovision. But with hot guys like this I feel alive.
This is the list of the contestant that passed and will be in the final
Even when it starts at 3 am in Taiwan, it is a show that I love to watch.
This year it is being hosted by Ukraine. Some years the hosts are really lame and they make the show terrible. Sweden has had the best hosts I have seen, but these Ukrainian guys aren’t falling behind. Nice, charming and witty.
Australia – His voice is too mature for his young face. I hated his background. Next time Aussies.
Albania – Nothing special
Belgium – I am surprised by her deep voice. Not my favourite, but the song is not bad.
Finland – it’s ok. Nothing more to say
Azerbaijan – Not very good. I remember this country as having nice, well polished songs with classy performance. I think they are absobing the eccentricity from other. I, personally don’t see them in the final. But maybe if they buy it, of course.
Greece – Nothing special
Poland – Ehm… next.
Moldova – They make think of Ed Sheeran… but, don’t misunderstand me, no nobody compares to Ed’s talent
Iceland – a cape???
Czech Republic – soft song, that is it.
Cyprus – I actually enjoy this song. Very nice and the guy is good looking. Hope he makes it to the final.
Armenia – Interesting hue
Slovenia – Doesn’t he look like Robbie Williams?
Latvia – Why??? are you the Miley Cyrus of Europe?
The countries that made it to the final are (in the order they were announced):
Moldova: Hey Mamma by Sunstroke Project
Azerbaijan: Skeletons by Dihaj
Greece: This Is Love by Demy
Sweden: I Can’t Go On by Robin Bengtsson
Portugal: Amar Pelos Dois by Salvador Sobral
Poland: Flashlight by Kasia Moś
Armenia: Fly With Me by Artsvik
Australia: Don’t Come Easy by Isaiah
Cyprus: Gravity by Hovig
Belgium: City Lights by Blanche
Ok, with Armenia, Greece and Poland, I think they were just filling the remaining space. As these songs were not special at all.
I am also pretty sure Azerbaijan and Australia, pay quite a lot of money for this event, so even though they are not in the Big Ones, they always make to the Final.
Moldova, wasn’t a complete disaster. So altogether with Cyprus and Belgium, they are fairly in this list. Hope they do good in the final. and by this I mean I hope they do not end up last. I simply do not see them winning.
Sweden and Portugal. As you read before, they are some of my favorites. It would be very hard for me to have to chose between these two countries, but although the Swedish is hot, I think the Portugal guy has more talent.
As he did not needed much in his performance to make the audience vote for him. He did not even had to sing in English. His inicial introduction was so cute and not show off as others. It was only him in libraries and reading in the tram. He looks like a nice, well-hearted guy, with not only sweet voice but knowledgeable brain.
12 points for Portugal.
I hope you liked this quick note on the Eurovision.
I have watched the Eurovision for 8 years. Yes, sometimes it is disappointing to see get too political. But every year the show is espectacular, they put a lot of effort in the details and many of the performances are high quality. The songs feel fresh from what there is always on the radio. It can be quite weird sometimes, but it is entertaining. In short words, I love the Eurovision.
I will post again for the second semifinal and the final
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The Andean Malbec was a thrilling experience and when I found its counterpart, a Chardonnay, I knew I had to try too.
This was the first time I had a Chardonnay, so I cannot compare with others, but I have heard how good this type of wine is, so I had double high expectations.
I wasn’t disappointed, none of my friends were. Just by smelling the cork you can tell that this wine is promising.
It smelled as something serious and sophisticated. I imagine myself in an elegant place with a gourmet menu. This is the type of wine you want to have for a intense conversation, or even over business.
It’s coloration is darker than other white wines I have tasted, but just add to its elegance.
The taste was well balanced, and just like the smell, it is was sophisticated.
So, I take my precious Frontera and offer a sip to a friend and he goes:
“Yeah! It’s ok.” – Okey? Just okey? It is great for me and why is he not enjoying it more???-
“But I would prefer it cold!” – He finishes saying.
Red ones are fine at room temperature, but why would white wines be just better if they are cold? Why?
Time for the chu chu twirling train of science. Let’s discover some wine chemistry.
Ok! So, wines are made from the fermentation of grapes and sometimes, of some other fruits and plants. In short words, if it is a RED one, the grapes are crushed with the skin, which provides the color and the tannin. And if it is a WHITE one, the juice is extracted from the fruits. For ROSE ones, the juice is allowed to stay with the crushed skins and it is removed afterwards.
Either the case, some bacteria are added at this point and after 1 or 2 weeks, the carbohydrates and some of the sugars are transformed into alcohol and acids.
Wonderful! Now we have our wine. It is delicious and a real piece of art. A few weeks later we want to share it with friends. But instead of a pleasant wine night, it turns into a disaster; the wine had changed color and it smells like rotten nuts and tastes like vinegar.
The wine did not fully become vinegar, as it did not contain the right type of bacteria for that. But what happened?
If you are wondering what is Oxidation , it is what happens when you leave an apple half bitten on your table. It turns brown
This is mostly the reason of the change of color into a darker brownish one, and it is also partially responsible for the smell.
Because there is enough oxygen, the bacteria in the wine proliferated and continued the fermentation process, releasing not only alcohol but molecular sulfur. Which is the main responsible for putrid odor.
How to controlling this problem?
YES! More sulfur! Not in the molecular style, but in its SO3– form
In case you want to know, here is the reaction:
No, it isn’t not harmful!
They are preservatives, used in many types of food. As the matter of fact, most the goods the consume contain more sulfides than wine.
Basically, sulfites join all the molecules that could oxidize, thus preventing oxidation. But there is one more thing, sulfites can cross the bacteria’s cell wall and damage it from inside.
This is how you prevent the wine going bad.
A little of history!
The romans discovered that they could burn sulfur candle in the wine barrels and thus and thus the fermentation odor cause by the bacteria was reduced. Sulfites have been used in wine ever since then.
How Sulfides do their job
Let’s not get into nerdy stuff, but it is important to mention that Sulfides will join all the available molecules that can oxidize. ALL OF THEM! Therefore, the sweeter the wine, the more sulfites it needs. I am looking at you Moscato!!! You sweet, delicious, heavenly thing!
Red wines are normally less sweet and because they have tanning, their own natural antioxidizing they have less sulfites than white ones.
Now, let’s go back to our original question.
Why white wines are better when cold?
As I mentioned sulfites will join all the available molecules that may oxidize. Let’s imagine sulfite as an annoying child that requires attention.
Wines have esters, phenols and aldehydes. These three guys give the wine its taste, the body, the consistency. These three are the main musicians of the orchestra.
And they will not perform well with a crying baby next to them.
Luckily, a child is not allowed to out when the weather is cold. The colder it gets, the less children are allowed to go out. So, when the wine is chilled, sulfites stay at home and the musicians are left alone to perform their best.
The alcohol is, of course, the director. If the musicians aren’t performing well, he will come out too strong and be all over the place. As a result you will end up with a disappointment and a possible headache.
The answer to our question
Because there are more sulfites in white wine, it will require a lower temperature (around 5-8°C) to control the bonding with other compounds. While reds are best at around 14-18°C. Not really at room temperature (usually 20° C), but a little colder.
Don’t worry! Lower temperatures will also stop bacteria proliferation and with the appropriate sealing, a cork or a screw cap, just a little oxygen will be in contact with the wine.
I think I will talk about wine sealing, next time.
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The plan was to camp, so we had a tent, sleeping bags, rain coats and a load of enthusiasm.
This was some-of-us first time camping in the real wild. I had done it before, but it was in a place well prepared, with a place to get food, showers and all. This time it was for real and we were on our own.
When I started this section of the blog, my close friends thought they would give me a hand with some wine tasting. I call it Wine-Tasting 01. So we adventured into the local tiny supermarket. For those who know it, Simple Mart.
The goal of the night was a red and a white one. The white one was Cape Elephant, we had previously had it with Jessi and we just needed to have it one more time. So the indecision was, which red one? We did not have many choices, but we hadn’t tasted any, so any option would be a new adventure.
MERLOT! One can never go wrong with Merlot. And as a South American Wine fan a Chilean Merlot was the winner.
I am starting this section with my own very first tattoo, it is right below my current last one.
I dedicate my right foot to my career accomplishments. I had the flower made after graduating from high-school and as you are about to find out the molecule was done to honor the bachelor degree.
As an 11-year-old, I started designing a tattoo for my right foot. Many designs went through the pencil. As I grew up, the idea of what I wanted changed so I never decided on one, also you can imagine that my parents would not let me one. When I turned 18 and I graduated from high school I did an amazing Europe trip with my friends. It was the perfect moment. I walked into the studio, forget about my design and pointed at a tiny cute flower on the wall.
10 minutes later it was done. It was exactly GBP 18, and they were well spent. The tiny souvenir flower still brings me so many good memories.
But it is tiny, and it wasn’t enough.
This one was just meant to happen. When I finished the last exam of chemical engineering, I had to honor my career somehow. The best way to do that was to tattoo Serotine’s molecule. Basically, and in short words, it is the molecule that allow us to feel happy, the happiness molecule. There are other molecules like this, like dopamine (pleasure molecule), adrenaline (excitement molecule), oxytocin (love molecule), but let’s not get too nerdy.
There were no cool designs on the web, or at least nothing that I fully like, so I sat I draw something that matched the souvenir flower but that would still be nerdy. The original molecule looks like this:
While getting it done I discovered that the ankle is quite sensitive.
Soon there will be another one to commemorate all the efforts done for the master degree.
I went to the studio with a friend who got an amazing little-prince’s hat as a tattoo… a hat, or a snake who ate an elephant?
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I’m here just for transit and the first thing I see as get off the plane is this:
Everything cancelled. Luckly I had a hotel booked for the night and my next flight was originally on for today, March 14 morning, but it was automatically reschedule for tonight. All I have to do now is wait.
It is 11:46 am and I am sitting at the hotel lobby. I am watching the head-lines and reading some news and they are all like this:
I seams to me, that I am going to be here for a while, since the shuttle to the airport has also been cancelled.
So, when one of the strongest storms in the history in New York hits the east coast of the USA and your flight gets delayed for more than 12 hours, you gotta find things to do. But first let me give you some tips, even if you are an expert traveler, you might be forgetting one of these stuff that might just save you.
1.Check the weather before leaving.
Yes, as simple as this, checking the weather of your destination might help you prevent not having a place to stay while a big storm passes by. If you notice there are warnings and news about bad weather conditions in the place you are going book a hotel. By the time you get to the destination it might be too late and you will be stranded in the airport. And if the weather improved by the time you land the hotel might agree to give you a refund.
2. Pack a smart hand luggage
Pack the following on your hand baggage, even if the airline did not loose your luggage, it is a good idea to have this items at hand:
Extra clothes. Including underwear and a sweater, even if your destination is in the Caribbean, you don’t know if you will be greeted by a blizzard in the transit city.
Food, but not fruits. Fruits are usually not allowed to be carried, but a packages of cookies might save your life, specially if you arrive late at night, during a blizzard
Chargers. Is this necessary to explain? After a long flight, your devices are probably low on battery, and guess what, you are not going to be the only one looking for a socket.
Cash. It should be obvious, but it is amazing how some people forget that cash exist. Credit cards are useful, but you can not tip with cash, at least in most places. You don’t want new yorkers giving you even less friendly look.
3. Contact the airlines.
Tip no.1 and 2, were prevention tips, but if you followed No.1 then you will get internet at the hotel and from there you can contact the airline. If you the blizzard occurs in the USA, like it is happening to me, then know that airlines will not be in charge of any lose you had because of the delay, but they will automatically try to reschedule you in the next flight available. So before panicking, check your email and look for the airlines messages. I am now traveling with DELTA and but the time I arrived to New York, they had already fixed everything. All I had to do is the online check-in, as it is usual. #nosponsorship
4. Keep Informed
This is a very obvious piece of advise, but seriously, watching the news, constantly checking the airline’s webpage news and updates and talking to the people at the front desk has kept me warm and comfortable all these long cold hours.
I also recommend that before you leave your comfortable hotel check if the airport is even open. This blizzard was so strong that the JFK was closed and reopened until the afternoon. So as a safe recommendation, check with the airline if the flight has not been further postponed.
The following is the view from my window, I took in the morning around 10 am, but it is now 2:03pm.
Here are some other images of how NYC looked after this blizzard
Now, how to avoid boredom? Here is a list of things I have already done, I would really like you know what would be your suggestions.
Call you relatives and friends. This is the moment to catch up with friends, write them on Facebook, line or whatsapp. And why not call your mom? I know my mom is always ready to keep me company.
Books. Catch up with you long forgotten reading. I hope yo have the ePub, of your favorite book with you. For me, it is the Eragon saga all over again.
Games. Preferably if they are offline. For me? Pokemon Reborn, a fan made version. I need to thank my good friend Grexxen for this. Thank you.
Blogs. Yes! catch up with your blog or if you don’t have one, start one! it is great to be able to share your experiences with other people.
When you are done or fed up with all of the above, you can also sit at the hotel restaurant or lobby and pretend to do something important, but really you are just watching and analyzing other people. Perhaps inventing stories of the place they are from and where they are going to. Sometimes you try to ever hear their conversations and sometimes their voices and actions speak for themselves.
So here is what just happened at the hotel restaurant:
Before I start I would like to say that all the characters I mention here look and behave as if they are all from different countries and backgrounds. I was really interesting to see interacting with one another.
There was a man, to which I am going to refers as KIM., who was sitting with his computer at a table for 4. On the table next to him there is a woman with her baby sitting also at a table for 4. She is now sweetly and quietly singing her baby. I am going to call her ELLA. The baby has been still and well-behaved and ELLA has been sitting there for a while just minding her own business and entertaining her baby.
The elevator doors opened and a family of 4 non-English speakers comes out. I am simply going to refer to them as to “the GREENS”, mostly because they are wearing different tones of green. They were looking for a place to sit, then another guy, let’s call him MAX, who has no relationship to the GREENS whatsoever, sees the situation.
MAX tells the family not to worry and that he will get them a place to sit. He goes to KIM and politely but firmly asks him to please move to the table with ELLA. However, the man takes this as a total offense. He looks at ELLA and the baby as if they were from different worlds. Then KIM, grabs his things and reluctantly stands up. ELLA paid no attention to KIM’s looks but without showing any expression moves a couple of things away so that KIM has enough space for his computer.
KIM then walks with his things and stands next to the bar at the end of the restaurant. The GREENS see what happens but without saying “thanks”, neither to MAX or to KIM sit on the table. KIM stays on the bar for a few minutes and then walks away.
All I can say, is that this is many cultures shocking together in a very small space and short amount of time.
There is no conclusion here, it is just interesting to watch people’s actions and reactions.
Yes I am a little bit bored, but it will soon be time to go.
Finally!!! It is time for me to go to the airport. The wait is over and I need to take that flight.
I hope you are never trapped in a blizzard but if you are, hope this blog post helped a little.
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Say good words – Do good deeds – Thinking good thoughts
The first time I went to Fo Guang Shan was in the Summer of 2013. Dad was visiting me in Taiwan for a few weeks and I wanted to make his stay unforgettable. While I was looking for places that we could go I remembered that a few friends had shown me some magnificent pictures about this place. I have been in Taiwan since 2009 and I wondered why I did not hear too much about it before and as it turned out, it was new!!! It opened in December 2011. Well, at least the Memorial Center did. The monastery was built in 1967, but until recent years they decided to be open for the public.
I have experience the temple in two different ways, as a tourist and as meditation practitioner.
Discovering with Dad – Tourist
Of my first visit I remember being dumbfounded by the vastness and beauty of the place, there is no denying of that. But I also have a strong memory that it was sunny and very hot. What I am trying to say is the real reason I enjoyed that day was not because of the place but because I was with dad and we were both excited taking pictures at the details. Here are some pictures of things you perhaps did not notice.
However, something happened that day, that without knowing at that time, changed my life. Dad and I were exploring the main temple and we noticed that at entrance on the right side there is a table with some brochures, candles and other paraphernalia on it. Behind it, there was a smiling venerable. (a “venerable” is alike a monk, but they do not use this word, so I will be refereeing to them as “Venerable”). She saw us and with a friendly tone started talking to us with her best English. Small talk at the beginning and the then she handed me a brochure of information of a monthly retreat for foreigners. I did not pay much attention, but dad seamed to encourage the idea. I left the temple with a “maybe I will come”.
The coming months I forgot about the temple but the idea of going back and experience that retreat lingered in my head. Then it happened, one of my best friend told me he found about this activity and, from one day to the other, decided to join. He told me all about it and I was fascinated with his experience. I had to go. Without hesitation we signed out for the next one, which would be held in March 2014.
Re discovering of the temple – Meditation
For three days we experience the monastic life. Waking up at 5 am and then quickly getting ready for joining the morning chants in the main temple. There was a sea of people, but it did not matter because everybody moved in order and being mindful of each of their movements. When the chants were over, we were directed to the main dining room, where more than 2000 people could fit, however that morning we were no more than 300. Everybody entered in order and in silence and at 6 o’clock they served the breakfast. For 15 min nobody spoke and just focused on the first meal of the day. At 6:15 everybody was finished and in less than a minute everything was picked up and cleaned. Impressive.
All the meals were served and carried out this effective and thoughtful manner. Every course was vegetarian, needless to say, and it was deliciously well done.
During the morning, we shared the temple chores with the venerables. We got simple things like planting flowers, so it was a beautiful task. In the afternoon and before dinner we were taught meditation, starting out from the most known one, sitting meditation, to walking meditation and even meditation white drinking tea. We laughed, we learned, we grew, we became better. No one told to me change religion or to forget mine, or that I was wrong, we were there to experience and learn just what we wanted, or let’s say, what we needed, and they respected that.
Breathing – Meditation
What can I say? Once was just not enough, so on December of the same year, I joined my second retreat. This time, it was more focused in developing meditation skills and instead of doing so many activities, we mostly stayed in the meditation hall.
This time we were asked to remain silent and be truthfully mindful and aware of everything we were doing. This time we went meditation in different parts of the temple. I do not remember the names of all the places, but here are some pictures for you see.
It was beautiful, I felt so much in contact with nature, with trees, with the birds, with the wind and of course, in contact with myself. Remembering to breath, being aware of the involuntary movements of my body, realising that I am in control. Relaxing, letting go, breathing, seeing life from a different angle, living, existing, breathing. Yes! Breathing, it is amazing how we can easily forget to properly do such simple task. Realising that we are all connected, that this blog is here because you would read it, and because you would read it, I sat today to write it, and so you affected me and I have affected you.
Chinese New Years – Tourist
The experience was life-changing and mind opening. I am not changing my religion, but I adopt what is useful for me from other beliefs. The next retreat I was able to join was the one held for Chinese New Year in 2015, the year of the lamb. There were less teachings and close to no meditation activities, but the temple offered a big meal to celebrate the new year and there were, parades and lanterns all over. Definitely a hectic time for the temple. Also, if one was able to visit all the key places of the temple, they would give you a temple souvenir, which I still keep very dear.
After that, I was convinced that the best way to spend CNY for foreigners, was to go to the temple. So next year, in 2016, the year of the monkey, I took mom, who was visiting me, along with two other friends to Fo Guang Shan. I was finally able to tell mom all what I have seen and explain all what I have learned.
We walked around the temple more than once and experience the greatness of the place. Then, at night, fireworks. Do you think the temple is beautiful? Now imagine it being illuminated with fireworks! It is simple breathtaking. The newest part of the temple was recently completed, so we were able to take pictures from this new angle.
The retreats were an amazing experience and I wish I could do them again, but the temple has stopped doing these activities for foreigners. It is only held once a year during the month of July and it lasts for 1 month. It would be a little hard for me to join, but I will never forget what I lived and learned.
One more time – Tourist
Now it is 2017. I was happy to hear that some of my foreigner friends were looking forward to go, and without thinking too much I joined the group. We were a big group, we were 22!!!
It felt good to see all those places again. The memorial center is impressive, but my favorite part is the monastery, after all that is where I spent most of the time during the retreats. I remembered doing meditation in the Buddha land, the mesmerizing morning chants in the main temple and the secluded little shrine on the top of the hill. I hadn’t been to that little shrine since the first retreat. It is a little far away and the road is a little steep. When I finally reached it, the venerable there, offered me and my friend who was walking with me, water and candies. She even turned on some relaxing music, just for us. The 10 minutes that I spent there brought back flashbacks not only of my experiences but also of the lessons learnt.
I am sure you have probably seen that Fo Guang Shan is a must-see in Taiwan, but if at the time you read this the retreats are being held again, Fo Guang Shan is a must-experience in your life!
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Seven years in Taiwan certainly change one’s perspective and feeling towards this beautiful holiday. I have always love and enjoy Christmas, from my point of it is the merriest season of all. It is all about hope, family and a spark of magic. I simply love it. Yet being away from home for so long, and living in a not-very-Christmassy country makes me stagger sometimes. Until now I have manage to dismiss the Grinchy-ideas surrounding me, but how long until I give in and allow the Christmas spirit to perish?
To try to understand why Christmas perishes and why and how I dismiss those feeling by trying to keep the spirit alive, it is important to first define the meaning of this holiday.
Definition and History
For Catholics, Christians and any other type of Christ-believers it is the remembrance of the birth of Jesus-Christ. Quite enough reason to be joyous and grateful. It was passed on to the world as a reminder of sharing noble feelings, such as compassion, love, caring, forgiveness, etc. In the hope of some reflecting and introspective development. But let us take a further look into Christmas. As my good friend and blogger Grexxen mentioned, Jesus was not quite born on December 25th. Yet, since the beginning, it was set to be celebrated on the already pagan holiday. Throughout the years is has further been changed, influenced by many different cultures and reinvented to modern times.
Yes! it is profoundly commercial, it increments sales, influences the market and has strong impact in the economy. At micro and macro scale. Complaints are that Christmas was turned into a ferocious season of shopping and honouring a gift-bringer whether is baby-Jesus, the three-wise-men or most popularly known, Santa-Claus. Are these adjustments and incursions the blameable factors of the perishing Christmas?
Let us take a look into the blameworthy suspects:
Besides Christmas, when do you consider giving somebody else a present? Birthday perhaps, sometimes not even there. Would you even consider wasting your time, money and energy trying to get something nice for someone you don’t really like? I think not, unless is your boss, but not even there. Gifts are a little way of saying “I care for you”, ” you are important to me”, “I hope to see you smile with this”, “I think of you”, “I rather invest my effort in you than in anybody else”, etc. And so much more. So even in the commercial side of Christmas, it provides an excellent opportunity to say something meaningful to someone important. So, no! Christmas does not perishes because of presents. At least not because presents are given, but perhaps it has something to do with how presents might be received.
I realised a little too late, that part of the culture here in Taiwan is to refuse gifts a few times before it is accepted and sometimes they even criticize it. It is a way of being polite and to allow you to get to know them better. It is strange, but hey! I am not in my country. And so I had so learn how to give gifts here. As the years passed, I got better at giving gifts to Taiwanese and I never gave up, there is always a way into their heart. Luckily, I have always had friends to share Christmas gifts without having to change my traditions. I simply go frolic about presents. It is not receiving them that makes happy, it is the reaction I see in my friends when I give them something they’ll enjoy. Seeing my friends and dear ones happy, because of what I did for them is far more valuable than any gift I could get. But I also won’t get angry if you get me something nice. haha
Do we really need them? Probably not, but they are a way of materializing our thoughts and feelings towards this holiday. Nativities honour our religion, reminding us of the gift of hope. I personally rejoice when I see mine. It is tiny, for it is impossible for me to keep a big one, but I get a sense of peace when I see the angel and when I finally place baby Jesus on Christmas eve.
If a Nativity does not means this for you, then take a look at a Christmas tree, if you had one as a child then it is a reminder of the kid in our heart, with big eyes, full of wish, expectation, dreams and a little bit of magic. And who doesn’t like magic?
Christmas does not perishes because of ornamentation. But it does if all the decorations lack of meaning and sense behind it. For there is not use of a gorgeous Christmas tree, if it was done reluctantly and then left there to dust through out the year.
The year that I came to Taiwan, things were very different. Now there are a lot of ornaments and very easy to find. Seven years ago there were not enough. I searched restlessly for Christmas stockings, and they were no where to be found. So, I made them! Went to the store to get some cloths, thread, needles some bells, and spend most of my free time of my first December sawing them. I still have them and place them every year. Shortage of decorations will not get my spirit down.
Now this is a less materialistic part. We are getting to a deeper meaning of Christmas. Friendship, how wonderful is this girt. Not a gift, more like a treasure. We are humans, we are social by nature and friendships are meant to be nurture and kept. It is a blessing to spend a Christmas surrounded my people who mutually enjoy each other’s company.
So how can friends be a liable for the perish of Christmas?
During all these year, I have met many people, I have become friends with some of them and with some we have created unbreakable bounds that will last forever. The hard part, is that I have also seen many of them leave. The first few years I spend Christmas with about the same faces, but then they started taking other paths. Gladly, new friends came around, and then I found myself with a new group of people. And then they also left. And it has been like that for a while.
I am blessed that every year I have had good friends to hug merry-Christmas. And every year it is a brand new experience. For the good friends that have left Taiwan and that are in another part of the world, well, there is always internet. Letter and postcards are also a magical detail. I feel joy and excitement when I write them and send them, hoping that my friends feel the same when they get it and read it.
For all my friends, those who are here and for those that aren’t:
Thank you for having crossed roads with me. You are a blessing. And I hope the next year is full of joy and success. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
With love, Adriana
Probably the deepest meaning of Christmas. It has been 8 years! 8 Christmases away! It is one of the seasons that make me regret a little of my decision of being here.
I was one of the lucky few that was always able to convince the professor to not have test or academic activities on the 24th or 25 of December, but I know of many who had to spend their Christmas eve studying. I am also lucky to be working at a good company that is sensible enough not to make work on Christmas. So I am lucky. But nothing nothing can match the infinite euphoria of being with my family on Christmas. I hope destiny does not takes to long until it allows me to be there.
So? how do I dismiss the boundless yearning? Remembering good times, knowing we are bless to have each other, even in the distance, hoping to see them soon, praying and Video Cam!
Nothing could be the same as physically being there, but the camera helps. To see my mom dressed beautifully and being accompanied by my handsome dad. See my nephew’s eyes sparkle with the twinkling lights. My little niece get excited to see everybody together. Share a good warming talk with my beloved cousin. Hear my aunts and grandma’s voice. A simple web cam chat makes my Christmas complete.
I miss you, I miss you more with every passing second and for Christmas, I miss you hopelessly. But I love you and I know we are together, and we will always be. Thank you for the unconditional support. You are the biggest blessing and the only gift I want/need.
With deep love,
I am sorry for leaving and making you spend all these Christmases without me. Ever since I left there has been a Christmas tree in the house. You don’t know how much your sacrifice mean to me. I promise I won’t be too long now. I love you. I miss you.
So with all of this I refuse to be sad on Christmas. I dismiss the idea of letting my Christmas spirit perish.
It is hard being away for Christmas. but if you are in the same situation as me, don’t lose hope! don’t you even dare to feel down on Christmas! Don’t give up! Christmas is so much more, and you can find it in the little things around. And you can find it in your heart.
Merry Christmas to all! And a very joyous and prosperous new year!
If I have to describe Taiwan in one word I would chose the word “convenient”. Not only because the locals use this word to describe almost everything here, but also because once you come here and experience it, you will realize you have been missing “convenience” in your life.
Last year I met some friends from different parts of the world and they claimed they do not have/use this word in their language. But that they started living with this word once they came to Taiwan. Literally and figuratively.
If you have been here before, or overhead someone talking about this beautiful island, then you are probably aware of the convenience stores, such as 7-11 or Family Mart, literally at every corner, and open 24/7 every single day of the year. So if I was to include them in the list then everybody would agree that they would rank the most convenient feature in Taiwan and the list would go something like this:
Taiwan’s No. 1 convenient feature:
The convenience stores. They provide a little of everything solving you life in every possible way………………………… end.
But that is not a very fair list. I will, however, make a list of the convenient features you can do, of get at a convenient store. I will probably focus on the 7-11 since it is my personal favorite. In the meantime let me rank the other convenient features of Taiwan’s life.
So here it goes, my TOP convenient features of Taiwan.
5. Public Transportation.
Let me start from the biggest to the smallest. There are 4 major international airports and 14 other minor and domestics ones in an island that is only 400 km in length. So you can practically fly anywhere in Taiwan. But let’s face it, flying might not be that convenient. That is why there is the the High Speed Rail, train and buses. You can purchase tickets online or with an app with your credit card or by cash at the station or even better at a 7-11.
But if you chose to get the ticket at 7-11 you will even get a discount coupon at Mr. Donuts or Starbucks. Now! isn’t that convenient? You can also take intercity buses. They all have Wi-Fi, USB charging port, bathroom, and some even have massage chairs and movies.
City transportation is also convenient specially at Taipei, Kaohsiung and Taichung, where they have buses and MRT (mass rapid transit, al known as subway, underground or however you want to call it. It runs well in Taipei and Kaohsiung but it is still under construction in Taichung). Just get your “Easy-Card” and you are good to go. You can recharge it at the station or guess where else? yes! at 7-11 or any other convenient store. Too lazy or too far to walk? get a Taxi. Wait for it at at the street, or use the 7-11 ibon to call one. I personally think, that is the easiest way, it gets there in less than 5 mins and I can wait in the freshness of the store. All taxi-drivers use the taximeter and are usually very friendly.
Uber, yes we have Uber, and it is expected to open in all Taiwan, but for the moment only in Taipei.
Overall, public transportation is very convenient, but the reason I am rating 5th is because there isn’t a direct convenient transportation from the HSR station to the airport or from Taipei. I heard rumors that this system is already under construction, but in the time being, there is only one line of shuttle buses that are usually overcrowded and the luggage ends up rolling around.
Oh yeah! They are fun, they are fast, they can get into small alleys and you only need about NT$ 100 a week to fill them. There is no doubt that Taiwan can be a little overcrowded sometimes and it can be a little hard to find parking spot for cars, but for scooters, never! This might be a little different for Taipei-people, but for the rest of Taiwan, it is the scooter-life you want.
You can get a second hand scooter for about NT$ 10,000, more or less, depending on the scooter. Most foreigners will chose a second hand scooter, since most of us stay for about 2 years or less, and there are scooter mechanics on each street. Getting the scooter drivers licence is really easy. The test is no more than common sense and some practice. Here is the link for the mock test:
So, Get up early, do the medical examination, which is usually in front of the motor vehicle office and about 10 am you will be a legal driver in Taiwan. Your scooter will be your best companion in this beguiling Asian country. The only thing you will regret is not having enough time to discover more of Taiwan.
I say scooters, but if you are into motorcycles you can also get a small one, about 125cc. You will mostly use it for the city and maybe going to cities around you. A bigger motorbike is too big for the roads here and you will most-likely have problems parking it.
I love my scooter, but I place this feature in 4th place because even if you were best and most careful driver in the world, there is always the risk that somebody else is not having a good day and crashes with you. So if you come to Taiwan and decide to ride a scooter, open your eyes, drive safe and always, always, always, wear helmet.
What time is it?
4-10 am? sure you can get something to eat, the breakfast are already open with delicious sandwiches and Chinese omelettes waiting for you.
10-11:30 am? Either breakfast place, rice rolls (飯糰 Fàntuán) or the lunch boxes store are just starting , but perhaps coffee at 7-11 is just good enough.
12-2:30 pm? They typical question is:”rice or noodles?” Here in Tainan you get a very complete lunch with only NT$ 60, with NT$ 100 you will be more than full. If you live near a university you will be able to find a street full of food shops and restaurants, there are just so many options. Spaghetti (義大利麵 Yìdà lì miàn), dumplings (水餃 Shuǐjiǎo), fried rice (炒飯 Chǎofàn), rice covered with vegetables (蓋飯 Gài fàn or 燴飯 huì fàn), Japanese soup (拉麵 Lāmiàn). The list goes on and on.
3-5 pm? Some restaurants take a rest in the afternoon, but they start selling onion omelet and the egg cakes
5:30 pm – 1 am? dinner time. You will find as many options as at lunch time, but it gets even better and better. Now the Lu wei’s (滷味 Lǔwèi) are open (I don’t know how to translate that), where you can chose what you want and they will boil and flavor it for you. There are some breakfast places that open at 5 pm and close the next day at around 10, so it is a great place to get a chicken sandwich (should I even call them breakfast places? Maybe just snack places). And the best at night are the night markets. Tons of different food, drinks and snacks. People and lights everywhere. It is the best way to live and feel Taiwan. What is the first you should do when you visit a new place in Taiwan? go to the night market, you will certainly have a lot of fun.
Since I live in Tainan, I am providing the schedule of Tainan’s night markets.
The only two reasons I do not give food 2nd or 1st place, is because not all places have English menu and you might need certain level of Chinese to know what they are selling and the other reason is that some food can be very oily.
I hope you are never in the need of any doctor while you are here, but it is not a bad idea to be prepared.
Taiwan has one of the best medical services, if you are here for more than six months, they you can apply for the national health insurance. This will allow you to see a doctor at a clinic for a price ranging from NTD 50-150, and it includes medicine. If you don’t have this card, then a visit might be around NTD 300 – 500, still cheap and it also includes medicine. Normally you don’t need an appointment, you just pop in and the doctor will see you in 10 or 15 mins.
Finding a doctor is also very easy, just translate the type of doctor you want, google it and you will get at least 10 options around you. Doctor at clinic do not necessarily speak English, but they make themselves understandable. If you still cannot find what you want, then maybe you will decide to go directly to the hospital. Their English level is usually better, and they will provide you with a general doctor at first, and he/she will direct you with an specialist. The hospital might be around NTD 500 with insurance or about NTD 1200 without insurance.
I did not give pt shops a spot on the list because not everybody has pets. But Pet shops in Taiwan are really convenient. They are open up until midnight. What kind of petshop is open until midnight? Anyway, if it is 11 pm and you have the sudden need of a fluffy hamster or a bewildering lizards like mine, you can just go to the pet shop and fulfill your desired. NOTE: I am not saying you should, since we are talking about LIVE ANIMALS and owning one is something you should decide responsibly. You can always find one within a Km radius and they have everything your pet might need.
As for me, I am the proud owner of two magnificent geckos, and one of the reasons they keep so healthy is because even if I had a busy day I am always able to find them food at any time of the day.
Yes! TEA SHOPS is the absolutely most convenient feature of Taiwan.
For the intense heat of Taiwan mostly all year long, tea is what you need. I am a coffee lover, but without a doubt tea is a delicious feature of Taiwan. Sure, you can buy drinks at 7-11, but there is nothing like a drink made specially for your taste.
When you finally make up your mind between the infinite choice they have just tell them the amount of ice and sugar you want.
It is usually like this:
Sugar (糖 Táng)
Normal Ice (正常Zhèngcháng)
80% Sugar (少糖Shǎo tang)
60% Ice (少冰shǎo bīng)
50% Sugar(半糖Bàn tang)
30% (微冰wēi bīng)
30% Sugar (微糖Wēi tang)
No Ice (去冰qù bīng)
No Sugar (無糖Wú tang)
Each person has its own preference, but my three favorite drinks are
Winter melon with lemon (冬瓜檸檬 Dōngguā níngméng)
Black tea with lemon (檸檬紅茶 Níngméng hóngchá)
Green tea with yakult. (多多綠茶 Duōduō lǜchá)
The tea shops are something I will definitely miss when I leave Taiwan. They are healthy, they are delicious and they are everywhere.
Depending on where you live you will find different stores, here in the magnificent south Taiwan I recommend:
So what do you think? Would you also rank Tea shops as the number convenient feature of Taiwan?
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You know how some people really like cakes? or brownies? Yeah? Well…, I don’t. I am more like the ice-cream type. I have tried many ice cream places in Tainan and there is always the classics, vanilla, strawberry, and always, always, always Belgian chocolate. However I normally go for the coffee flavored one, or something less conventional. And as much as all these flavors are fine, they can be very heavy and really sweet. Sometimes even the ice cream shop provides water along with the order, because they know it is humanly impossible not to become cloyed. Some shops have better ice cream than others, some have more choices or more toppings, but over all they are all very similar.
Fruity ice cream is not that common here, for some unknown reason. And, sadly they never ever have my all-time favorite flavor, -LEMON-. Guava is also good, but lemon is perfect. It is refreshing, a break for the heat, an oasis for the burning sun and high humidity here in Taiwan.
It wasn’t until recently that I finally found the place for me, FORT, a place where ice cream is art. They don’t call it “ice cream”, they call it “gelato”. For me “gelato” was just the Italian word for “ice cream”, but as they described it, gelato is the healthy version of ice cream since it contains less to no butter or eggs.
One of the owners, who is from india, makes the gelato from scratch and produce flavors one could never think of. One of the most outstanding ones is “blueberry basil“. It sounds like a strange combination. But it was one of those things that you either hate or love and there is no middle point. The first time I was there, I did not get a scoop, but for the following weeks I kept on thinking about that beguiling flavor, until I was able to go back and get it.
Besides Gelato, they also have a section of coffee and some other snacks, like sandwiches and salads. Which might not sound like a lot, but in a city where good sandwiches and salads are hard to find, this gives FORT yet another reason for being a little oasis.
The place is nicely decorated, at a first, it looks like randomly chosen movie posters. But once you get a closer look you realize that they are hand-painted. It turns out that just about two blocks away there is a traditional cinema and the posters were a gift to the place.
Sun Shower rating for FORT: 4.5/5
So? Are you looking for a great place to spend your afternoon? Oh… wait… I haven’t tell you where is it:
Did you realized where is it? just in front of Chihkan Lou!!!!!!
Open from Tuesday to Sunday from 10:30 am to 21:00
Here is a little update:
I was invited to do an interview with a Taiwanese friend and luckly for me, she could not know me better and decided that this place would be perfect for the activity.
They changed a little the decoration, now, instead of Fast and Furious, they have Suicide Squad.
This time I decided to have a Chicken salad, while some of the other girls had banana pancake and salmon sandwiches. I tried them all and it was delicious. but this was not a surprise, as I already knew this places is awesome.
This time instead of coffee I had a fruit tea. I would usually take it with some cinnamon, but I know Taiwanese people are not fond of this spice, so it was not a surprise when I could not find this taste. In contrast it had different hues of exotic fruits, kiwi and a little passion fruit, and of course the expected pineapple and and apple.
One of the girls decided to have some tea with Matcha cookie. (Matcha is the Japanese green tea, which is different from the Chinese/Taiwanese green tea)
This time they did not have the most delicious lemon gelato that I fell in love with, but it is ok, because hey had almond flavor and the surprisingly fenomenal Guabana, Guava and Banana.
*Insert guabana picture here!
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Sunday was a normal day. busy with errands and house chores. We exchanged a couple of messages, but nothing too long. But then today was really hard.
Here in Taiwan, there are no Christmas holiday. They do not celebrate Christmas so the 24 and the 25 are just normal days. However being the only foreigner in the company my boss offered me two extra vacation days. Isn’t that great? Well, although I was very happy to get the vacation I was really sad to tell him that I will re schedule these days for next year. He was a little surprised but he understood, after all, they day after the break up he recognize my puffy eyes and I had to tell him what had happened.
If I took those two days off I would spend them alone, because all my other friends have to work. Besides HE will be in Taiwan around Christmas, if he hadn’t go through with his evil plan of break up with me then we could have spent two extra wonderful days together, but since we are officially not in a relationship anymore, it is best to be as busy as possible, specially for Christmas. Being busy keeps me from thinking too much, keeps me from listening to sad music and it keeps me from crying too much. So it is better to have a lot to do.
After that conversation with my boss, I came back to my desk and the moment I sat down I started to cry. Cry in silence. I miss him and I would have really liked to spend those days with him.
I met one of my friends yesterday. Well, actually, she was his friend first and then he introduced us. Now she is more my friends that his. It was like that for many of his friends, since he was not very constant and always a little reluctant to meet them.
We talked of many things and of course, we talked about him and the break up. My plan was to wait about one more year and see if could figure things out for us in that time, but he was faster. He said he could not fight the long distance anymore, that he was tired, that he had no strengths left. And then he changed his mind. Even if he regrets when he did, the idea had already crossed his mind.
My friend could see that there is a part of me that still wants to continue, but she can also see the big problem. The long distance and the 4 years that are ahead of us. This years we were lucky, we got to see each other 4 times, but if we add up the days, it is less that 60 days. But next year, it will be about 2 weeks and that will be it. How is a relationship like that suppose to work out?
These couple of days went by and we have been talking more casually. Besides everything he does, he is a photographer. And he is really good, although he is really modest and does not realises how good he is. He has been sending me the pictures he has taken. A part of me gets happy to see he is doing what he likes, but another parts get sad when thinking that I will not see his pictures again. I’d better save them all, I case I don’t see any new one later.
Last time I wrote I was still half around the world, but now I am back to Taiwan. The flights and the waiting felt eternal. More than 24 hours to get home, but I not complaining about the length, I have done that many times. The difference is that this time there was only question in my mind “What am I going to do?” His email, his words made thoughtful and unsteady. He is sorry for the way he behaved and he wants to keep going, but is it really worthy?
A great University like Oxford, where he is studying now, requires a great scholarship, and a great scholarship requires a great sacrifice. Next year that he graduates he will be given a choice, whether go back to his country, Ecuador, for 4 years, or pay back they full amount of the scholarship. He decided to go back, even though that is not very good for neither of our careers, but at least the debt won’t be there. And I was willing to follow him, to give up everything I have achieve, even my family in Guatemala, just to be with him. I was really going to do it. But now that he has let me go in such way, is it really worth to keep going after an apology e-mail?
I still love him, that has not change, but even if I forget everything, the big problem will still be there.